Showing posts with label dating advice. Show all posts
Showing posts with label dating advice. Show all posts

Sunday, 15 February 2009

How To Get A Woman To 'Shower' You With Attention!

The other day, we told you:
"If you'd like a woman to shower you with attention, you must always be needed and wanted... Simply do (THIS???) and the seduction can last forever." 99.9% of men shoot themselves in the foot because they don't stick to this simple key element! How many times have you failed with women because of (THIS???)

So, what is THIS??? ... How does a guy get a woman to 'shower' him with attention?

It's called DETACHMENT. HERE'S HOW IT WORKS:

Once you've made a good impression on a woman -- for example you've said 'hi' to her, she's said 'hi' back, and you've had a chance to flirt and establish a slight level of attraction -- you increase the heat by suddenly backing off. As explained in our book, your goal is to leave her 'wanting more'.

Women do this all the time to men. This is almost a tradition, and so it can really infect a woman with attraction when a guy does it. Because it's the last thing that she expects. FACT: Men are generally the aggressors. Men pursue women.

FACT: Most often a woman wants a man that she pursues.

CONCLUSION: Do not chase women. You want women to chase you. And you do this by combining flirtatious behavior with 'detachment'. USING THIS STRATEGY IN REAL LIFE...
To 'detach' from a woman, you first need to ignite a spark of attraction with flirtatious behavior ... Smiles, seductive language, exciting movements (* read the complete guide to flirting in The 'Science' of Picking Up Women).

After you've set the stage with flirtatious behavior, it's time to 'detach' and back off... Suddenly, the woman is left wondering why you backed off. She is left thinking about you.
Your goal is to leave her to think about you for a few days... the next time you see her, once again be warm and flirtatious.

Then start the cycle of detachment all over again. WARNING: There is a danger of being labeled an 'office tease' if you don't step up the heat in future encounters that you use flirtatious behavior. So step up the heat, use detachment to leave her thinking about you more and more, and when the time is right, when you feel that she is literally hoping more than anything to be with you... ASK YOURSELF: Do you want this woman to become 'obsessed' with you? You have set the stage for serious 'obsession', and as you are about to find out with this woman, sex with an obsessed woman is one of the seven wonders of the world.

Read that again. Sex with an obsessed woman is one of the seven wonders of the world.

Sure, she might think that you're a jerk... that you're a 'player'... that you'll probably 'play' her... BUT SHE WILL STILL WANT YOU. She'll start showing up where she knows she'll find you... at your work, at school, at the nightclub. She'll start talking to all of her friends about you. She'll start calling you day and night.

She might start annoying you. But, those are the drawbacks you'll have to live with when you have used detachment on a woman so many times that she's willing to put out sex where ever and when ever you want it.

Tuesday, 10 February 2009

Guaranteed Dating Tips For Guys

There are a wide variety of dating tips for guys on the internet. Some suggestions are better than others and you have to find and try many things before you find a method that suits you. If you keep going and do not give up, you will be dating in no time.

You must be out there and available to meet people. This is one of the various dating tips for guys that really work. You cannot sit at home and hope that a date will fall from the sky. You have to get out there and meet lots of people before you find the perfect one. If this is something you find difficult you can take confidence form the fact that the more frequently you go out the easier it will get.

But remember, once you make yourself available, you must do the work. When you meet and talk to a woman you need to show genuine interest in what she is saying. This is one of the best dating tips for guys.

Another tip for dating is to listen to what is being said during a conversation, this is a skill you should develop if you wish to date successfully. Whilst you should avoid acting like a parrot with a woman, you should repeat at least some of the things she says back to her, this way she knows you are listening and have an interest in what she is saying.

Another of the great dating tips for guys is to be romantic. This is a quality that women find attractive in a guy and this is a great way to succeed with any woman. Flowers and dinner, gifts and compliments and anything else that suits the moment can put you apart from the rest and leave a favorable and lasting impression.

With so many dating tips for guys out there it is important to discover what is best for your personality. Do not make this more difficult than it needs to be, let your dating style develop gradually, this will make it appear natural. Always try to be yourself as this is something that will work and will pay off in the long run as well.