Top Five Dating Tips for Guys Who Want a Second Date

Are you the type of guy who seems to have no problem getting a date but can never seem to ever get that second date? Don't worry there is help and these dating tips for guys will help you score that must desired second date.

Dating Tip #1: Dress to Impress
Even though you might be the guy who hasn't bought a new pair of pants, new shirt or new shoes in 10 years, this is the time to do it. A lady wants to be proud of the man she is with and dressing well is one way that you will be that guy. Go out and buy yourself a new outfit, or better yet buy a whole new wardrobe! It's time to take the plunge and get nice clothes that fit you well. If you are not sure about what is in style or what really fits you well walk into any men's store, grab the first female sales associate who appears to be about your age, because yes your clothes need to be age appropriate, and ask her for help. Give her the low down on how everything you own has either been worn to work and is not fit for taking a lady out or how your closet hasn't had a new addition in 10 years.

Dating Tip #2: Shower, shave and smell good!
Let's face it guys it might be ok to hang out with your buddies when you haven't shaved in a week and the last shower you had was around that time too but no lady wants to be with you when you stink and look like a mountain man. Get your hygiene in order and do it fast! Don't forget to dab and yes that means just a little bit, of cologne on to smell good during the entire date. Women love a man who smells great without being able to smell him from a mile away.

Dating Tip #3: Don't Smoke Unless She Does
If you are a smoker this might be a great time to quit unless your date is a smoker too. Ask first so that you know if you should just leave the cigarettes at home and sit in non-smoking. It's just the polite thing to do and trust me she will thank you for it.

Dating Tip #4: Sports is not a religion
Don't get me wrong guys there are some women out there that love sports just as much and your guy friends, but there is also a good amount of women who could care less about the topic. If she is into it great, talk about it all you want. But if she isn't, don't worry you can discuss the most recent games with your buddies later.

Dating Tip #5: Talk and Listen
Always remember that there is a line between having a conversation with someone and just talking at them. Make sure to engage your date in a conversation that will get her mind going because you want her to be interested in you but also have the time to allow you to be interested in her thoughts too.

Follow these top 5 dating tips for guys and you should have no problem getting that second date the next time around!

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How To Get A Woman To 'Shower' You With Attention!

The other day, we told you:
"If you'd like a woman to shower you with attention, you must always be needed and wanted... Simply do (THIS???) and the seduction can last forever." 99.9% of men shoot themselves in the foot because they don't stick to this simple key element! How many times have you failed with women because of (THIS???)

So, what is THIS??? ... How does a guy get a woman to 'shower' him with attention?

It's called DETACHMENT. HERE'S HOW IT WORKS:

Once you've made a good impression on a woman -- for example you've said 'hi' to her, she's said 'hi' back, and you've had a chance to flirt and establish a slight level of attraction -- you increase the heat by suddenly backing off. As explained in our book, your goal is to leave her 'wanting more'.

Women do this all the time to men. This is almost a tradition, and so it can really infect a woman with attraction when a guy does it. Because it's the last thing that she expects. FACT: Men are generally the aggressors. Men pursue women.

FACT: Most often a woman wants a man that she pursues.

CONCLUSION: Do not chase women. You want women to chase you. And you do this by combining flirtatious behavior with 'detachment'. USING THIS STRATEGY IN REAL LIFE...
To 'detach' from a woman, you first need to ignite a spark of attraction with flirtatious behavior ... Smiles, seductive language, exciting movements (* read the complete guide to flirting in The 'Science' of Picking Up Women).

After you've set the stage with flirtatious behavior, it's time to 'detach' and back off... Suddenly, the woman is left wondering why you backed off. She is left thinking about you.
Your goal is to leave her to think about you for a few days... the next time you see her, once again be warm and flirtatious.

Then start the cycle of detachment all over again. WARNING: There is a danger of being labeled an 'office tease' if you don't step up the heat in future encounters that you use flirtatious behavior. So step up the heat, use detachment to leave her thinking about you more and more, and when the time is right, when you feel that she is literally hoping more than anything to be with you... ASK YOURSELF: Do you want this woman to become 'obsessed' with you? You have set the stage for serious 'obsession', and as you are about to find out with this woman, sex with an obsessed woman is one of the seven wonders of the world.

Read that again. Sex with an obsessed woman is one of the seven wonders of the world.

Sure, she might think that you're a jerk... that you're a 'player'... that you'll probably 'play' her... BUT SHE WILL STILL WANT YOU. She'll start showing up where she knows she'll find you... at your work, at school, at the nightclub. She'll start talking to all of her friends about you. She'll start calling you day and night.

She might start annoying you. But, those are the drawbacks you'll have to live with when you have used detachment on a woman so many times that she's willing to put out sex where ever and when ever you want it.